ANXIETY BUSTER: A Simple Technique For the Whole Family
“Chronic anxiety seems to undergird this pandemic, but an emerging technique does wonders.”
By Karla Hardin, MS LPC
By Karla Hardin, MS LPC
Nearing the 7th month of the Pandemic – I have seen an hidden epidemic arise. It affects all ages, all races and all socioeconomic groups –chronic anxiety.
Anxiety is so exhausting emotionally, physically, mentally and takes a heavy toll on our immune system.
In order to experience healing, the integration of mind, body, and emotional makeup is essential. As a result, I draw on training by the Amen Clinic, which approaches mental health as holistic.
The Amen Clinic and Dr. Sandlin Lowe, exposed me to Havening –a psychosensory technique that stimulates the delta waves in the brain to rewire and heal. My whole family traveled to NYC to train in with the founders –Dr. Ron Ruden and Dr. Steven Ruden.
Recently, Dr. Lowe explained and demonstrated this technique in such a clear and helpful way that is a MUST watch!
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This is such a tangible help for not only yourself, but I am sure for someone you know who is struggling with anxiety! Please forward to friends and help share a simple technique that anyone can do!
“When anxiety, fear, or panic attacks arise, it can feel like you’ve been swept up in an emotional riptide. But you don’t have to let daily stressors hijack your emotions.
With a very simple strategy—so easy even children can do it—you can calm yourself and wash away anxiousness. What is this soothing technique?
It’s called HAVENING, and you can do it anywhere, anytime.
“Havening is a technique that uses touch to create delta waves in the brain,” explains Sandlin Lowe, M.D., a neuropsychiatrist and former neurosurgeon who specializes in integrative psychiatry to enhance brain health at Amen Clinics.
Certain surfaces of our skin—such as the palms of our hands—have special nerve endings called Pacinian corpuscles, and if you put pressure on them, they generate delta waves. These calming brainwaves, which typically occur during sleep, can help soothe anxious feelings.
HOW DO DELTA WAVES CALM ANXIETY?
Havening, which was developed by Ronald Ruden, M.D., an internist with a Ph.D. in organic chemistry, generates delta waves that have a positive effect on regions of the brain that are involved in creating emotionally charged memories and trauma. One of these brain regions is the amygdala, which plays a major role in recording the emotions of our experiences. When it comes to traumatic experiences, the amygdala encodes emotions in a different way, and they become what neuroscientists call “potentiated.” This means they get hard-wired into your brain where they stick like super glue.
“That’s why you can close your eyes and within moments feel like you’re back in a traumatic moment,” says Dr. Lowe, who sees patients for havening appointments at Amen Clinics (via Zoom or in-person at the Amen Clinics New York location). “It’s Mother Nature reminding us not to do that again.”
Emotional trauma is usually related to an experience or event that is either unpredictable and/or inescapable. With the coronavirus pandemic, Dr. Lowe says, “You could argue that we’re all being emotionally traumatized each and every day from what’s going on.”
3 TYPES OF HAVENING TOUCH
Dr. Lowe, who uses this unique therapy with many of his patients, says the most common havening touch techniques include the following:
Rub the palms of your hands together. Rub your hands together slowly as if you’re washing your hands.
Give yourself a hug. Place the palms of your hands on your opposite shoulders and rub them down your arms to your elbows.
“Wash” your face. Place your fingertips up high on your forehead just within your hairline and then let your fingers fall down your face to your chin. Note: This technique is not recommended during the coronavirus pandemic when health officials say it is not advisable to touch your face.
3 COMMON FORMS OF HAVENING
There are many forms of havening, but 3 of the most common are called transpirational, affirmational, and event havening.
Transpirational Havening
If you feel anxiety from the day’s events, distressing news, or a desperate situation, transpirational havening can help. While you use one of the 3 touch techniques described above, talk about what you’re feeling. For example, as you stroke your arms in a downward motion, you may say something like, “I’m feeling so worried about our finances, and I’m feeling helpless.” As the touch produces delta brainwaves, the special nerve endings send signals to the amygdala that make it feel safe and secure. This helps take away the anxiety-producing effects of the words you are saying.
During the pandemic, this can be very effective for frontline healthcare workers who have gone through a difficult experience with COVID-19 patients and are having trouble coping. After a particularly stressful or sad shift, a frontline worker might do self-havening and talk about what they’re feeling. “There were so many sick people on my shift, and I’m so scared of getting the virus and infecting my family. I didn’t’ sign up for this and it isn’t fair.” While talking about these feelings, the emotions are being neutralized by the delta waves to help restore calm.
Affirmational Havening
Saying positive affirmations while practicing one of the havening touch techniques can be very powerful. This is due to the fact that havening mimics the sleep stage when your brain incorporates the memories of the day. Because of this, saying affirmations while havening puts those positive thoughts into the brain’s memory centers—the hippocampus involved in declarative memory and in the dorsolateral striatum and ventral striatum involved in operational and procedural memory.
“This is like taking the power of positive thinking and exponentially supercharging it,” says Dr. Lowe. “Not only are you loading up your brain with wonderful, powerful affirmations, but you’re also putting them into procedural/operational memory. so you can operationalize these powerful positive aspirational thoughts.”
This can be very effective at resetting your anxiety levels. For example, during the day if you get anxious or frightened, think “safe, peaceful, calm” while you rub your hands or arms. This will help defuse your brain’s fear centers and promote soothing.
Event Havening
This form of havening is often used for people with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). It has been found to help eliminate the intrusive thoughts, nightmares, and flashbacks associated with PTSD. Note that this form of havening is best done with a trained therapist.
Watch to see a demonstration of the Havening Touch!
This technique so exemplifies to me that we are “fearfully and wonderfully made” and touches on God’s amazing integration of our whole being!
Experience the numerous benefits of Havening by trying it today!
Karla Hardin is a Licensed Professional Counselor at Passionate Living Counseling and Trauma Specialist for Hardin Life Resources
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